Lithosexual

Lithosexual also called Akoisexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum, lithosexual.

Hey guys, gals and non binary pals! Today is the fourth day of Asexual Awareness Week. Are you aware yet? If you want to see the previous days, you can click here or on the category at the bottom. A lithosexual person may find that they have a crush on someone. However, once that person expresses an attraction to our lithosexual person, their attraction fades. Making more sense now?

Lithosexual

Lithosexuality is a sexual orientation referring to people who may experience sexual attraction but do not want these feelings reciprocated. A lithosexual person experiences sexual attraction to other people, regardless of gender, but do not want these feelings reciprocated because they are not comfortable with the idea of a sexual relationship, or because the idea of mutual attraction is unwanted to them. It is also possible that the sexual attraction fades as soon as they find out the other person is also sexually attracted to them. Lithosexuality is on the asexual spectrum and belongs to the lesbian and asexual communities. This means that a lithosexual person is also an asexual person. The definition of the Ancient Greek root "litho" is "stone" or "rock. Note that lithosexuality says nothing on someone's gendered preference; a lithosexual person may be attracted to the same gender, any other, or all genders; these categories are not mutually exclusive. Another important distinction to create is that one's lithosexuality - whether they experience sexual attraction - says nothing about someone's romantic preferences. For example, a lithosexual person may still experience reciprocated romantic attraction without having their romantic feelings fade. The romantic orientation counterpart to lithosexual is lithoromantic. Lithosexuality is also called akoisexual, lithsexual, or akoinesexual. These can be used interchangeably, although we understand it may be a bit confusing.

Do you dislike talking to people you know are sexually into you? A lithosexual won't enjoy receiving, lithosexual, at all, and would be turned off by the indication that the partner isn't keen on keeping it strictly one-sided. And that's pretty much regardless of how one is defining sexual attraction, lithosexual.

Official definition: A person who experiences sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. Kaira's understanding of that definition: Meet Bob. Bob is a lithosexual. Bob is a lithosexual because:. I feel like sexual fantasies not experimental sexual fantasies, where you are only masturbating to it, to see if it does anything for you.

Lithosexual also called akoisexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum. Someone who is lithosexual may experience sexual attraction but does not want it reciprocated. As such, lithosexuals do not feel compelled to seek out a sexual relationship. Like with any sexual orientation, lithosexuals can have any romantic orientation. This categorizes lithsexuality broadly within asexuality , as functionally it tends to result in not being interested in having sexual relationships, which one would assume require mutual sexual interest and affirmative consent given the Theory of Critical Social Justice and the disposition of its adherents—see also, rape.

Lithosexual

Lith-, or Akoi- , is an a-spec orientation prefix that refers to individuals whose attraction fades when reciprocated, the Greek prefix 'lithos' meaning 'stone'. Some lith individuals don't desire their attraction to be reciprocated, while others simply don't need it to be reciprocated. Lithromantic was coined by the mods of Tumblr blog lithromantic sometime before February One mod described its coining and etymology as deriving from the concept of Stone Butch lesbians. I mean, anything close, not anything we could figure out how to twist around and make it mean what we wanted. Someone who is Stone likes to provide sexual stimulation to a partner, but does not like to receive sexual stimulation themself.

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How do you explain this, without it making the conclusion neccessary that at least one of them is mistaken in assuming to be straight they are "obviously" at least bi if they sought out sex with a male partner , and possibly the other has been "practically raped"? You realize that liths are named for stone butches, right? That means, directly, immediately, and logically, that if someone consents to partnered sex they are not asexual by definition. Orgasm doesn't always have to do with quality or the wish to have sex. You're allowed to disagree with me and you're even allowed to go on believing your own personal definition of lithosexuality even though it's very different from the definition accepted in most ace and LGBT communities. Terminology Lithosexuality is on the asexual spectrum and belongs to the lesbian and asexual communities. Yet it's also apparently about the pleasure Bob gets from giving pleasure that's me so yeah I don't think being with an ace would work for him by that definition. No I don't mean rape, because you'd be consenting. Only the latter is relevant for the question of whether an act of sex is rape. Personally, I simply disagree with your assumption. So, indeed, all attraction-based, and ignoring the point I raised in my last post. I believe that: Mental sexual fantasies that you get off on when you masturbate, is a great indicator of determining what subsection of asexuality you are. No need for the fancy label lol. They just need to be able to enjoy it. Because they lose interest upon any reciprocation of interest.

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Guest Posted December 7, Lithosexual can be a sexual orientation on its own or can combined with other orientations. However, "any normal sexual person" would become active and reciprocate, and the overwhelming majority of sexuals would prefer it if they did so. Only the latter is relevant for the question of whether an act of sex is rape. You can continue to tie yourself in knots over this all you want, but we are talking about a very specific label here, not an average person who just enjoys giving more than they receiving. That was absolutely not intended. Because again he would rather seek sexual pleasure by himself. No one is stopping you from any of that. Is my understand of lithosexual correct? Split Attraction Model. The lithosexual flag consists of five differently coloured horizontal banners of equal breadth: Red, orange, yellow, white, and black. A lithosexual person may find that they have a crush on someone. Sign In Sign Up. I haven't seen you go there before, ever.