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MNHQ have commented on this thread, mumsnet aibu. Obviously, the purpose of it originally was for posters to ask an actual question, Am I being unreasonable… to not want to visit Mexico at Christmas, to think teabags should only be used once, to want my friend to visit me for once. As a kind of secondary point to this, why have so many topics and not use them? People end up posting asking for advice in AIBU on sensitive mumsnet aibu because they get no response in the correct topic.

Find cleaning advice from other Mumsnetters on our Housekeeping forum. I have an upstairs neighbour who keeps watering her plants and the water goes on my balcony. She has so many plants, some even hang over the balcony. One dropped the other day and all the mud was on my door and balcony. I politely asked her if she could be more careful and sent her a picture and video. Her solution is that she will water the plants at 9pm tonight rather than in the day and she said "it's not against my tenancy. I've checked".

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DS comes home quite moody. He's 9. He's quite rude to me and his grandma but nothing unreasonable. Anyway, during dinner I ask him if I can check something with him I was going to ask if he wanted dessert. He rudely says 'No you cannot'. So I said fine and just didn't offer dessert. Anyway DH witnessed whole thing. Made some comment about being rude.. SS gets dessert. You couldn't just say 'do you want dessert? You had to say 'can I check something with you' but don't tell him what? Is that how a normal dinner conversation goes in your house? Did you try and find out what was on his mind? In my house that kind of conversation has to be out of earshot of siblings so not at the dinner table but it sounds like something could have happened at school today.

Customise Getting started FAQ's. What can you do to make yourself feel better? To ask what the point of AIBU is any more?

Join our Primary Education forum to discuss starting school and helping your child get the most out of it. DS has a 'friend' in his class who is very over powering, and has recently been controlling DS not letting him play with anyone else and asking him to do things etc and saying he wants him to play with him no one else. I've approached the teacher and said that DS is feeling overwhelmed by this boys constant obsession to play with him and want him to sit next to him all the time etc and he said he will monitor the situation and try and separate them during different daily activities. Last week I found out that DS was asked if he wanted to go and spend 'free time' with this boy who has an hour a day to play with what he wants in a separate room because of his attention difficulties and behavioural problems! I'm annoyed that they put my DS in that situation just to keep the boy happy in my eyes and make life easier so he doesn't kick off and he has his 'friend' with him so he's happy. I do not want my DS singled out and isolated from the rest of the class while the boy has his free time especially when we are trying to distance them and encourage other friendships!

AIBU — am I being unreasonable? The acronym is attributed most to parenting website Mumsnet, where members can post and debate whether their choices, intentions and feelings are justified — or are unreasonable. The topics covered vary from friends to family to work, but notably to relationships too. You can break this down by reflecting on: how defensive your partner is being, whether this is a recurring pattern, whether this impinges on a core value of yours, and if you feel unheard. Determining where to draw the line though is tough because inevitably, our past experiences do affect the way we approach the present — particularly if there are unhealed wounds. If reasonability is determined by personal judgement, it might a good idea to define that better as a couple. Knowing your boundaries is a good first step to recognising whether a demand, concern or enquiry is unreasonable.

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Forget Mumsnet. Recognising when we are acting unreasonably in a discussion can be difficult. However, being unreasonable can seriously damage our relationships.

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Start a new thread. You couldn't just say 'do you want dessert? Please create an account To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. Start new thread. I've approached the teacher and said that DS is feeling overwhelmed by this boys constant obsession to play with him and want him to sit next to him all the time etc and he said he will monitor the situation and try and separate them during different daily activities. Dishonest background, negative vibes being interpreted as insecurity and metal health? The only person who can make you feel better is you! As you can see from my previous messages I am seeking help for my own insecurities, my only issue was I feel like he could have at least acknowledged me especially seeing as he said to message him. Am I actually filthy?! Start a new thread Flip thread Hide thread. OP posts: See next See all.

Ok, here are the main points, Unmarried to partner, 20 years. I've always earned well but in a career that's been hard and incredibly stressful.

Ex wants in. For desktop support. Unanswered threads Acronyms Talk guidelines Hide shortcut buttons. That's disgusting. She's grown up now but we still enjoy doing things together when we can. Made some comment about being rude.. Sharing posts outside of Mumsnet does not disclose your username. I recommend reading Overcoming Low Self-Esteem by Melanie Fennell; it's about cognative behavioural therapy as self-help and it's very good. Start a new thread Flip thread Hide thread. Could he be struggling with how to help you? You, OP, sound rather uppity. Step-parenting Follow topic. I got to know other parents that was and made some good friends.