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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. Hi, this is gonna be a long one but I just need to vent and get a lot of things off my chest, relationships mumsnet.

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. Initially as a friend but then things developed into a relationship. Everything has been pretty good up until about months ago when we had a bit of a fall out on holiday. After a tricky few days with some difficult interactions - arguments and such like, I decided to get us some tickets to a concert so we could try and lift out of this funk we have been in. At this point it is worth pointing out that our dynamics that causes issues is usually about if I say something or react a certain way almost always said or done without any harm or malice intended , she in turns reacts to that in a way that suggests my behaviour is wrong, unkind, unthoughtful, not loving, etc.

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Join the discussion and meet other Mumsnetters on our free online chat forum. Over Christmas, I went to a party and got talking to a girl in her early 20s. I asked if her partner was there, and she replied "I don't do relationships. She was completely focused on her career and didn't want all the 'hassle' her word. I also have a cousin who is 38 and lives alone. She has never had a relationship either she's one of the happiest people I know! Do you think it is becoming more common? I mean for people to choose not to "do relationships" at all? I'm not judging such people. I'm just curious. My own feeling is that it is more common. And I suspect it's because of several things. First of all, people live longer, and if they take care of themselves do so in better health. That looks set to continue.

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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. I spent 20 years in a very abusive relationship after an abusive childhood. We split 10 years ago. I've been having therapy for 5 years now, but these are some questions I'm too afraid to ask my therapist who is lovely - we have a great professional relationship, but these things sound so silly to ask.

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Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody. My husband told me today that the unconditional love he had for me is finished and that he resents me now after years of problems that have not been resolved and he says the whole marriage ending up like this is all my fault. No romantic love is unconditional. It's over. Use violence? If you've been having issues for years, then yes, the feelings of love can stop. I wonder, has he always been a dick?

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I'm a lot older than you 51 and I'm not single, technically, but I can say hand on heart that the happiest times of my life have been when I've been single. Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Customise Getting started FAQ's. By 30, I would have kept quiet about it at a party. Advanced search Saved Active Unanswered threads. Nothing wrong with being single! I mean for people to choose not to "do relationships" at all? This is how he wants to treat you. Sorry, just to add. If so, why have a kid with him? OP posts: See all. Relationships 8 replies.

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No matter what the lead up to it was, she hit you repeatedly and spat in your face. Im engaged but currently do not live with my OH but I go down every weekend or he comes up to me, we are supposed to live together again when his house is finished. Stop being a martyr to someone who, blatantly, hates you. Was she paying you rent? For desktop support. Hell, he isn't even your friend. You started off as friends. You must leave. Apply for new jobs, do it asap! I work with a number of women in their twenties and thirties who are happily single. I do find that responses have changed over the years.